Always remember that one internet dweller with 10 accounts can consistently manipulate downvotes to change perspective of certain opinions.

  • CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social
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    2 days ago

    Ive found Lemmy much less stressful to use since I just turned off vote count visibility. Less urge to check on how my comments are doing despite it not really mattering.

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      1 day ago

      I was looking for someone else to mention this.

      The karma system on Reddit trapped me hard and the constant validation seeking was really a drag on my mental health. Getting one negative score comment would ruin my day, I really just want to be understood. I realize how unhealthy that is, but I’m not really sure what to do about it besides just not interacting with that place anymore. I don’t have as much of a problem with being wrong in real life, it’s more the fact that online I have the opportunity to take my time, be meticulous, edit my post to make sure it’s perfect and I have said exactly what I wanted to in the exact way I wanted to…

      Coming here and being able to disable the counts has been an absolute dream.