• wholookshere@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    2 days ago

    if you dislike what it says about you, that’s for you to process and deal with.

    I’ve done nothing but point out what it’s saying to me, and just because you don’t like it, doesn’t mean it’s not being said.

    real talk here…

    its okay to be uncomfortable with what something says about you.

    but you CAN controll what you unconsciously say. By starting to recognize these biases and start to examine the root, and decide if you want to change how you do that in the future.

    I’m not even saying you have to, or even you should change. Just that if you WANT to change, you can.

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      1 day ago

      Yeah…no that’s not the problem here, i even identify partially as women and many friends of mine are women, i am not uncomfortable or anything. Please stop accusing

      It’s like if a hebrew said “Hitler is so right” during his reign

      Edit: i added what i said in later replies