• Holytimes@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    If you can’t take someone saying grats on the unprotected raw hot and sweaty love fucking. Then you shouldn’t be telling people your having a baby.

    Gotta take it like you give it. And some of us don’t hold back!

    That or just realize literally no one gives a flying fuck about you having a kid unless it’s like close family and even then not always.

    The whole over sharing your fucking nonstop with out protection is a weirdly American and religious thing. Really do wish it would die off already.

    When you show up with a kid or a baby belly, it’s self evidence. Don’t need to share.

    • Hereforpron2@lemmynsfw.com
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      1 day ago

      Oh of course, 100% agreed you can respond like that, and I’d chuckle and say thanks if it were me. Could also be a great way to bring levity to a situation that’s really difficult for some.

      Also just want to add, I’m from Spain and it’s completely normal to say here. Definitely not an American thing.