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minus-square🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down4·7 hours agoi won’t disagree about it being a violation of a the relationships boundaries. but if your monogamous partner has consentual sex with someone else, you can get upset, but that doesn’t mean he raped you by having sex without your consent.
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·7 hours agoWhere are you getting rape from? That’s not even remotely what’s being discussed.
minus-square🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down3·6 hours agoyou said that the problem in cheating is that the third party didn’t consent. no one needs a third party consent for sex,
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·edit-26 hours agoI said no such thing. I said cheating inherently means that the person being cheated on is not ok with it happening. That has absolutely nothing to do with rape or consenting to sex.
minus-square🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·6 hours agothen we’re getting stuck on something we agree on.
i won’t disagree about it being a violation of a the relationships boundaries.
but if your monogamous partner has consentual sex with someone else, you can get upset, but that doesn’t mean he raped you by having sex without your consent.
Where are you getting rape from? That’s not even remotely what’s being discussed.
you said that the problem in cheating is that the third party didn’t consent. no one needs a third party consent for sex,
I said no such thing. I said cheating inherently means that the person being cheated on is not ok with it happening.
That has absolutely nothing to do with rape or consenting to sex.
then we’re getting stuck on something we agree on.