As seen with Signal Advocacy as well.
These spaces are not welcoming to discourse and different ideas. I don’t agree with a lot of what I see here but idgaf about being downvoted or banned. Most of my family and the people I work with would be horrified by Lemmy. I still think we should be exposed to spaces we don’t agree with, but don’t be surprised when people don’t want to be here.
Perhaps your family and coworkers would be more interested in Lemmy instances that are more selective with their federation list.
There’s no way I’d recommend friends and family to the Fediverse, well, at least not Lemmy (can’t speak for the wider services).
Piefed onboarding process asks how much politics the new joiner wants to see : none, a bit, all of it.
That and keyword filters already help make the All feed more appealing
Mastodon is more approachable.
“Do you want to be called a neo liberal bootlicker for pretty standard positions shared by a majority of people? Have I got the place for you!”
“Want to be compared to a mass murderer if you read enough to think proportional representation isn’t a great plan?”
Usually, bad excuses are just an indicator that someone doesn’t care and just wants you to not bother them about it, rather than a “i’m interested but concerned here are my arguments”.
If we want more apps, instances and comms we have to try with the outreach. Not everyone who hears about the fediverse is uninterested.
I… don’t really want them here, tbh
I’m sure you would like more leftists around.
Nah. It’s too much of an echo chamber as it is. I want nuance.
Depends in the kind of “Leftist”, I suppose.
I could do with fewer tankies, that’s for sure.
Edit: lol downvoted by a lemmygrad user. I love when they self-report.
Why would you try to hurt your friends and family?
I will play devil’s advocate, it is not necessarily that people have bad excuses, most of the time it just hard to break from habits. It doesn’t help either that in the case of digital privacy, most people don’t give a fuck. Tech companies know that people prefer convenience.
The only way I see how people will migrate to more ethical services like Fediverse and Signal is if enough people are convinced to go, that it will start a FOMO sentiment on to each person. That is the real boulder we are rolling up the hill.
Keep posting decent og content in your fediverse comms and signal chats.
90%+ of content on the fediverse is just rehashed reddit/twitter content lol. The remainder is just fediverse specific content like op.
Reddit content itself Comes from news websites
I post on [email protected] , content is either sports websites articles, gifs of goals or stat infographics
On [email protected] , content comes from GSMArena, Androidheadlines, Androidpolice etc
Let’s not pretend that Reddit has a lot of OG content, it’s a link aggregator, links are going to be the same here
We need more active users who are artists and writers.
The problem is that the fediverse has genuine usability problems. Even from the perspective of a technical person. I am a sysadmin, and i self host a hilarious amount of things for no reason. Yet even i find the verse frustrating. Discoverability is near non existent, searching is hard, many instances just have duplicate content for popular topics, people don’t understand how federation works for the main feed so you get times where stuff like that instance that is only for women pops up on a bunch of different instances Main feed and you have to deal with all the “shutup man this isn’t for you!” And then of course there’s always the which one do I even make my account on and then even after you do select one there’s no guarantee it won’t shut down at some random point and you’ll be forced to migrate etc.
I’ve been on lemmy for a while and i still struggle to find content i want sometimes, but things like bluesky? It’s easy, i found what i wanted easily and the algorithm picked up on what i liked and what i didn’t and brought me more of what i wanted.
And the big problem with open source Alternatives and the fediverse is that instead of acknowledging that these are issues that need addressing and usability could be improved. They will instead tell you that it’s your fault and you should give up all of those nice interactions for the sake of being decentralized. It’s up to you to put in the effort to search every instance ever and find the content you want and bring it all together, it’s up to you to migrate as needed and deal with other things caused by the decentralization. I just want to find some nice art, talk about some interesting Tech stuff and avoid politics to relax. Bluesky and even to some degree reddit let’s me do this easily, lemmy makes it difficult.
Yet even i find the verse frustrating. Discoverability is near non existent, searching is hard, many instances just have duplicate content for popular topics
I find the ability to filter for communities both on Lemmy and Piefed, as a new user, to be far better than Reddit. Community owners can change the name of a community for increase its visibility, you can organise by activity. Especially with Piefed 1.2.
Honestly, PieFed solves so much of that - like combining all comments across all cross-posts, and Topic Feeds, which are user customizable and shareable, and showing the sidebar text with all the rules and such below each and every post in a community, not only on the community page itself, plus adding flairs (user and post), polling, a true blocking ability for all users from an instance, blah blah etc. but the chief thing is that it keeps growing so quickly. Python is just that much easier to code in than Rust, I suppose, or else the devs are just super good (or both?:-).
I lost hope for Lemmy long ago and almost decided to leave it, even if there was nowhere else to go. I am so glad to have found PieFed.
Even then if I want to learn about certain things that are barely talked about here, I have to go back to Reddit. I lurk now but that is where the people have decided to share their content, so if I need specifically it then that is where I need to go to read it.
People tend to overcomplicate the thing. Sync for Lemmy was a 1:1 clone of the one for Reddit.
Users can just jump in without any idea of what federation is: https://lemmy.zip/post/47438646?scrollToComments=true
Just send them cool content and funny memes as links to your instance. So if they want to comment/vote, they must sign up. Once they have, if there is a good app, recommend it.
Has Summit, Mlem, Blerp and Voyager recommendations ready for the occasion.
They trust their corpo bubbles more, pretty sad innit.
The barrier to alternatives is very high, especially when they simply don’t understand the risks.
People tend to overcomplicate the thing. Sync for Lemmy was a 1:1 clone of the one for Reddit.
Users can just jump in without any idea of what federation is: https://lemmy.zip/post/47438646?scrollToComments=true
If you don’t want to do something, any excuse is the same as the next.
People don’t want to face change.
Finally got my friends on signal, we were originally on Whatsapp, and then one of the several Facebook monitoring scandals happened and they agreed to switch to telegram, we went to signal for a long time after the Russia monitoring thing, and then we tried out telegram again and everyone hated it and wanted to go back. I was very happy lmao
Incredibly satisfying read!
Don’t forget there’s one monent every time Sysiphos rolls the rock up and down the hill when his world is perfect. That’s when he’s on top and for a second everything is in balance.
Camus told me to imagine him happy but I have Aphantasia :(
Sorry Sisyphus, you’re perma miserable.
I’ve never really got that story. I understand it as a metaphor, but to me it doesn’t quite work because this problem can be solved rather easily by constructing something, anything, at the peak to hold the boulder from tumbling. If he places the rock in exactly the same way each time, no wonder it falls down. But he should at least try a different approach or any other trick that improves the chances of it working. There are plenty of options.
Granted, I never read the actual story, I’ve only pieced it together from the many pop culture references to it. So they may be other aspects of the story that I’m missing.
Sysiphos has nothing to construct anything. It’s just him and the rock and the hill, forever. Also, the gods wouldn’t let him ease the curse that’s on him without punishment. The main concept behind ancient Greek and Roman myths is not to mess with the gods. They’ve got theit own business and don’t care about human affairs.
